Hello. I recently experienced something truly unbelievable in Indonesia, and I'm posting this with the hope that other Korean people and those living in Cikkarang won't suffer the same damage as I did.
The person I was sincere with, even thinking about marriage, turned out to be someone who habitually approached Korean men to gain financial benefits. I will share the methods and characteristics I personally experienced, and if anyone out there is meeting a woman like this, I hope you'll think it over carefully once more.
⚠️ Characteristics to Beware of This Woman
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Apps used: Tinder (Fr***sca), Bumble, Instagram (hua_26_0*), etc. (wearing traditional Chinese clothing in profile)
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Active areas: Frequently appears mainly at Cikkarang AEON Mall or Lippo Mall (Lily diamond).
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Identity: In her early 20s (05.01.26), she introduces herself as secretary of Bu* Industry (factory) chairman. (She says the company protects her—why??)
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Appearance/Style: She enjoys wearing flashy formal dress styles sold at Korean online shopping malls (kkamkka*ori, etc.), and she says she takes programming classes online.
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Vehicle/Residence: She drives a white Toyota Rush (license plate 14** series) and lives in Cikkarang Westwood Suites apartment. (She mentions family relationships with a Chinese father and Indonesian mother to evoke sympathy.)
❗ 'Marriage Pretense' Methods to Be Careful About
When she first contacts you, she doesn't mention money at all. She acts as if she genuinely wants to get married, completely reassuring people. However, when you actually meet, she gradually shows her true colors.
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Initial spending inducement: From the first meeting, she makes you buy groceries worth hundreds of thousands of won claiming they're gifts for her mother, or subtly demands expensive clothes and platinum necklaces.
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Demand for millions of won in engagement gifts: After creating an atmosphere for a formal meeting, she strongly pressures you to buy expensive rings and necklaces worth over 10 million won, claiming they are tokens of a marriage promise.
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Absurd disappearance: After getting the engagement gifts, she suddenly demands ridiculous money like home repair paint costs and starts fights. Then she disappears from a shopping mall claiming she's going to the bathroom, leaving only a message saying "I left my luggage at the hotel, go pick it up," and vanishes. Later, when you check, you find that only the most expensive gifts have been taken.
According to locals in the area, she is a habitual offender who has used the same methods against multiple Korean and Chinese men. I almost lost over 10 million won myself.
Don't think "It won't happen to me" or "This person looks kind, so it should be fine." Even if there are no money demands in online conversations, if she demands unreasonable engagement gifts or money when you meet, it's 100%. I hope my story helps someone and that there are no second or third victims.
If you feel wronged in any way, come forward and explain yourself.
I am the person who had an engagement ceremony on February 6th. I don't know whether the entire other family helped while knowing about this fraud in front of both families
The perpetrator seems to be meeting other victims even now, so I hope Korean residents around Cikkarang will be careful so that there are no more victims.
I have more stories I experienced, and the damage is quite substantial.
